Orang kata, kasih ibu membawa ke syurga... Aku memang sokong kata kata itu... Bagi aku, Ibu aku adalah insan yang amat istimewa pada ku...
segala kesusahan yg dia hadapi, tak pernah di tunjukkan di hadapan kami anak anak... begitu ketabahan seorang ibu menghadapi dugaan dan cabaran dalam membesarkan kami seramai 4 org.. Ibu ku sentiasa tersenyum tenang... walaupun di dalam hati bergelodak seribu macam perasaan...
setiap kali aku mengingatkan kesusahan ibu ku di waktu yg lalu, iaitu semasa membesarkan kami, air mata ku akan tumpah.. kerana ketabahan dan kesabarannya, kami berempat, berjaya dalam hidup kami... kami tak perlukan bantuan sesiapa untuk berjaya ke tahap ini... semua adalah berkat kesabaran ibu ku.. yang tak pernah kenal erti lelah... dan ibuku percaya yang kami akan berjaya.. dan berdikari... tanpa bantuan sesiapa... tanpa ehsan sesiapa...
aku adalah anak bongsu perempuan.. dan aku tahu.. walaupun ibuku tidak pernah menyatakannya, aku adalah anak kesayangannya... kerana aku adalah kekuatannya... aku adalah temannya yang setia... aku di lahirkan supaya dia tegar menghadapi semua ujian yang mendatang...
semalam... 5 February... ulang tahun ibuku... aku merenung ibuku... sudah nampak tua... aku sedih... bukan sedih kerana dia tua.. sedih kerana, dia menghabiskan hidupnya untuk membahagiakan kami semua.... dia tak pernah ada masa untuknya sendiri... semua masanya di gunakan untuk kami.... membesarkan kami... membahagiakan kami...
Tiada sesiapa yang boleh menggantikan tempat ibuku... bagiku, ibuku adalah insan terhebat di alam ini... dan bagiku, ibuku adalah segalanya...
Ya Allah, Kau berikanlah kebahagiaan kepada ibuku di dunia dan di akhirat... kerana dia adalah insan teristimewa bagi ku...
Ami, I love you forever....
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Friday, February 5, 2010
::Lagu::
Salam.. al kisahnye.. aku nie ada banyak koleksi lagu-lagu melayu lama. suka dengar lagu lama lama melayu nie.. kawan2 aku panggil rock kapak... bukan la apa, lagu lagu lama nie ada makna tersirat.. poetic... not like lagu lagu sekarang... bagai diri tapak sulaiman la.. ntah la.. . few days back, aku dengar la satu lagu nie.. n bukan sekali la aku dengar... banyak kali juga la.. bayangkan, perjalanan office dekat 1 jam 10 mins, aku dengar lebih dari 6 kali... hehehe... masih terngiang ngiang lagi lagu nie kat telinga aku... so, my fav songs for this week is "suara kekasih"...
Hadiran ombak membelai pantai
Tiada putusnya percintaan itu
Hembusnya bayangmu menyejukkan
Tapi tiada terhenti dahaga
Kerinduan suara kekasih
Membelai hatiku
Suara kekasih
Membasuh lukaku
Tibanya sinar bulan di laut
Dengan ribuna alunan kemesraan
Membawa kenangan yang berlalu
Dengan ribuan warna keemasan
Suara kekasih
Membelai jiwaku
Suara kekasih
Yang menyejukkan ku
Terdengar suaramu yang suci
Pabila terkejut dari mimpi
Ku manyakinkan suara itu
Memanggil daku dengan harapan
Tapi sayangnya alunan ombak
Yang memecah diri sangkaku
Suara kekasih
Yang memanggil daku
Suara kekasih
Di malam yang indah
Hadiran ombak membelai pantai
Tiada putusnya percintaan itu
Hembusnya bayangmu menyejukkan
Tapi tiada terhenti dahaga
Kerinduan suara kekasih
Membelai hatiku
Suara kekasih
Membasuh lukaku
Tibanya sinar bulan di laut
Dengan ribuna alunan kemesraan
Membawa kenangan yang berlalu
Dengan ribuan warna keemasan
Suara kekasih
Membelai jiwaku
Suara kekasih
Yang menyejukkan ku
Terdengar suaramu yang suci
Pabila terkejut dari mimpi
Ku manyakinkan suara itu
Memanggil daku dengan harapan
Tapi sayangnya alunan ombak
Yang memecah diri sangkaku
Suara kekasih
Yang memanggil daku
Suara kekasih
Di malam yang indah
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
::Macam macam ragam manusia::
Salam,
Ramai orang banyak la ragamnya.. tu kata orang dulu dulu.. Tapi bagi aku, kalau nak ikut ragam pun, biarla yang berpada pada... bukan apa, ada la nak luahkan rasa tak puas hati aku tentang seorang budak ni... (nak kata budak, dah boleh beranak dah...)
Aku cukup benci dengan PENDUSTA... kalau nak berdusta dengan orang lain, lantak pi la.. i dont care... but, tolong la jangan nak berdusta dengan aku... aku cukup benci.. benci tau....
dan aku cukup benci dengan org yang berpura pura... amat benci... depan aku kau cakap lain, but belakang aku, kau buat benda lain... jangan la ingat aku tak nampak, tak pe.. ALLAH nampak.. setiap benda yang kau buat tu ada di catat kan.. jgn ingat nak jaga perhubungan dgn Allah je, hubungan dengan makhluk pun kena jaga juga....
entah la.. baru baru ni, aku banyak di kejutkan dengan banyak benda...Aku cuma boleh berdoa pada Allah, tolong la jauhkan aku dari semua benda benda mengarut nie...
Ramai orang banyak la ragamnya.. tu kata orang dulu dulu.. Tapi bagi aku, kalau nak ikut ragam pun, biarla yang berpada pada... bukan apa, ada la nak luahkan rasa tak puas hati aku tentang seorang budak ni... (nak kata budak, dah boleh beranak dah...)
Aku cukup benci dengan PENDUSTA... kalau nak berdusta dengan orang lain, lantak pi la.. i dont care... but, tolong la jangan nak berdusta dengan aku... aku cukup benci.. benci tau....
dan aku cukup benci dengan org yang berpura pura... amat benci... depan aku kau cakap lain, but belakang aku, kau buat benda lain... jangan la ingat aku tak nampak, tak pe.. ALLAH nampak.. setiap benda yang kau buat tu ada di catat kan.. jgn ingat nak jaga perhubungan dgn Allah je, hubungan dengan makhluk pun kena jaga juga....
entah la.. baru baru ni, aku banyak di kejutkan dengan banyak benda...Aku cuma boleh berdoa pada Allah, tolong la jauhkan aku dari semua benda benda mengarut nie...
Sunday, December 13, 2009
:: Dugaan dari Yang Maha Esa ::
10 December 2009.. Dugaan terbesar ku terima dalam hidup ku... Mungkin bagi orang lain, dugaan tu tak seberat mana... tapi bagi ku, amat besar...
Kosong.. amat kosong ku rasakan hidup ku ini.. Tapi, aku perlu tabah... Allah memberi dugaan kepada orang yang di sayangi Nya... sekadar menguji... dan sebenarnya, mungkin ada hikmah di sebalik sesuatu dugaan yang di berikanNya...
Aku cuba untuk mengalihkan perhatian ku.. kadang kala, berjaya.. tetapi, ada masa, air mata ku tumpah juga... aku tidak menyesali takdir... aku tidak menyalahkan Nya... Namun, sebagai seorang manusia biasa, hamba kepada Nya, aku masih terasa pedih dan sedih di atas apa yang berlaku....
Ya Allah, berikan ketabahan kepada diriku untuk hari hari yang mendatang.... Hanya Engkau yang lebih mengetahui akan segalanya....
Kosong.. amat kosong ku rasakan hidup ku ini.. Tapi, aku perlu tabah... Allah memberi dugaan kepada orang yang di sayangi Nya... sekadar menguji... dan sebenarnya, mungkin ada hikmah di sebalik sesuatu dugaan yang di berikanNya...
Aku cuba untuk mengalihkan perhatian ku.. kadang kala, berjaya.. tetapi, ada masa, air mata ku tumpah juga... aku tidak menyesali takdir... aku tidak menyalahkan Nya... Namun, sebagai seorang manusia biasa, hamba kepada Nya, aku masih terasa pedih dan sedih di atas apa yang berlaku....
Ya Allah, berikan ketabahan kepada diriku untuk hari hari yang mendatang.... Hanya Engkau yang lebih mengetahui akan segalanya....
Sunday, November 29, 2009
:: POWER OF MONEY ::
Salam,
I received an email from one of my favourite group, very inspirational, and yet very useful for us too.
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Power of Money,
By Adam Khoo
( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires' ). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur' s Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
**************************************************************
I received an email from one of my favourite group, very inspirational, and yet very useful for us too.
************************************************************
Power of Money,
By Adam Khoo
( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires' ). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur' s Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
**************************************************************
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Sunday, November 22, 2009
::Public amenities: Surau::
Salam.
Hari nie nak ceritakan kisah surau awam pulak. especially Surau kat KL Central. Bukan la nak cerita pasal kekurangan surau tu, nie kekurangan etika oleh org org yg pakai surau tu.
Hari nie (23.11.2009), aku terbangun lambat sket dari yg selalu. Nak kejar train pkl 5.59 pagi. Nak solat kat rumah, tapi tak sempat. So, aku bercadang nak solat kat KL Central je la. Sbb, insyaAllah aku akan sampai kat sana dlm pkl 6.40 pagi.
Mmg aku sampai pkl 6.40 pagi. So, aku pun bergegas ke surau nye. Dah ambil wudhuk, aku pun berdiri di belakang sorang manusia nie, yg memang dah sudah solat. banyak juga yang dah habis solat, tapi duduk berdoa panjang-panjang n ada yg baca Surah Yassin. Minah yg aku tgh tunggu di belakang dia nie, dia tanggalkan telekung perlahan-lahan, lipat perlahan lahan, tanggal kain dgn perlahan-lahan (tanggal kain pun masa tgh duduk nie).. aku mmg tak paham.. apasal slow sgt.. cam pengantin yg mak mertua tgh tgk cara cara tanggal telekung.. aku mmg marah.. sbb masa tu dah pkl 6.50 pagi.. ramai yg beratur lagi nak solat.. but these kind of people, yg memang layak di panggil BODOH, buat tak tau je.. relax relax kat surau, mengamnil tpt org yg hendak solat. Yang baca Yassin n berdoa tu, nak baca boleh, but bagi la org nak solat menunaikan kewajipan yang WAJIB.. nak berdoa or baca Yassin, pergi ke belakang. bukannye susah.. ntah la.. nak menunjuk kot... yg mereka nie alim.. but, mereka tak tau, actually, secara tak langsung mereka membuat dosa free... Nie menurut pendapat Ustaz Ismail Kamus la.. nak solat kat surau surau kat R&R ke, KL Central ke, tgk tgk la sket.. jgn la pasal nak dapat pahala sunat, korang lak mengumpul dosa free...
Sesapa yg terasa tu, tolong tolong ubah sikap.. surau awam bukan masjid.. tolong ingat waktu solat yang pendek seperti subuh dah maghrib..
Hari nie nak ceritakan kisah surau awam pulak. especially Surau kat KL Central. Bukan la nak cerita pasal kekurangan surau tu, nie kekurangan etika oleh org org yg pakai surau tu.
Hari nie (23.11.2009), aku terbangun lambat sket dari yg selalu. Nak kejar train pkl 5.59 pagi. Nak solat kat rumah, tapi tak sempat. So, aku bercadang nak solat kat KL Central je la. Sbb, insyaAllah aku akan sampai kat sana dlm pkl 6.40 pagi.
Mmg aku sampai pkl 6.40 pagi. So, aku pun bergegas ke surau nye. Dah ambil wudhuk, aku pun berdiri di belakang sorang manusia nie, yg memang dah sudah solat. banyak juga yang dah habis solat, tapi duduk berdoa panjang-panjang n ada yg baca Surah Yassin. Minah yg aku tgh tunggu di belakang dia nie, dia tanggalkan telekung perlahan-lahan, lipat perlahan lahan, tanggal kain dgn perlahan-lahan (tanggal kain pun masa tgh duduk nie).. aku mmg tak paham.. apasal slow sgt.. cam pengantin yg mak mertua tgh tgk cara cara tanggal telekung.. aku mmg marah.. sbb masa tu dah pkl 6.50 pagi.. ramai yg beratur lagi nak solat.. but these kind of people, yg memang layak di panggil BODOH, buat tak tau je.. relax relax kat surau, mengamnil tpt org yg hendak solat. Yang baca Yassin n berdoa tu, nak baca boleh, but bagi la org nak solat menunaikan kewajipan yang WAJIB.. nak berdoa or baca Yassin, pergi ke belakang. bukannye susah.. ntah la.. nak menunjuk kot... yg mereka nie alim.. but, mereka tak tau, actually, secara tak langsung mereka membuat dosa free... Nie menurut pendapat Ustaz Ismail Kamus la.. nak solat kat surau surau kat R&R ke, KL Central ke, tgk tgk la sket.. jgn la pasal nak dapat pahala sunat, korang lak mengumpul dosa free...
Sesapa yg terasa tu, tolong tolong ubah sikap.. surau awam bukan masjid.. tolong ingat waktu solat yang pendek seperti subuh dah maghrib..
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